Take Care of yourself by any means necessary as hard as times are.
I have been learning how to do just that, I have been on a spiritual jounery for the past two years, and I must say it has been eye opened to me. because I finally found out how I allowed others to determine who and what I was and am.
I was very busy busy trying to please others and not even once trying to take care of me.
I've said this before and I will keep say it again you are no good to others if you're not doing those things for yourself. by any means necessary take care of your mental health, I was lost in being into the person I was with, I can say I was so into not been seen by who I was with. I also had epiphany about twelve year relationship off and on to realize I was a booty call for those twelve years, let me explain we never went on a date, he would come to my house after midnight and I was never asked if I need a ride to work after laying with me for wee hours in the morning. I had to admit that it was hard to believe that in my late 40s and early 50s and still be a booty call, and now I take care of me mentally because I live for me to be ready for what God has in store for me.
people will try to steal your joy and peace which I have finally learned to take it back.
my life has truly changed and I am proud of the woman I am becoming.
so just remember when someone tries to change you or you feel that you are or become lost in, move on find you by any means necessary. live for you and the God or Gods you serve. it can be done I am living proof.