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Love
As we have sprung forward at the beginning of March.
I have been reflecting on the word love and its definition of the word.
The definition of the word love is an intense feeling of deep affection.
The season brings out that and then some.
But despite the definition do we understand how to love?
A friend and I had a conversation about this and how during our lives we've been searching for love.
I mean the love you are supposed o feel according to the movies, the toes curling love. and yet we are now in our 50s and have still experienced that type of love.
I have spent the last three years trying to accept and love myself with all my faults.
I am not perfect nor have I ever thought I was perfect, in my head I created a love that was perfect with the husband and the white picket fence.
And it has yet to happen for me and a few others I know.
Love doesn't judge or criticize you for just being who you are.
Love doesn't go away or stop because a person isn't feeling you.
Love is unconditional and can bring you unmatched joy.
The best part is love is forever and lasting when it comes from a place of pure and unwavering.
Spring has sprung and with that knowledge, this love will find you, and when it does be prepared to receive a gift of the greatest joy.
Live, love, laugh
Jul. 25, 2022
Opinions and Advice
This topic has been on my mind all day.
my grandmother used to say"Opinions are like assholes everyone has one".
I have come to believe that it's very accurate I mean there is a difference you can give your opinion on a recipe or a dress your friend knows she shouldn't wear, but the advice is something that is an honest thought and you give it when needed not because you just feel the need. I have had my opinions about a lot of things but I keep them to myself. my friends have been there to give me plenty of advice on relationships, self-love, self-care, etc, but I know it comes from a place of honesty and trust. so please try to remember to give your advice from an honest and true place not giving your opinion based on your feelings or lack there of.
opinions are a hard thing to take back just like giving bad advice is hard to take back.
when I give my advice it's because I had a simliar experience, my opinion is a basic educated guess of what I think not fact. so the next time you're in a sitution of giving advice or your opinion be sure you truly know the difference.
