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                                Love

As we have sprung forward at the beginning of March.

I have been reflecting on the word love and its definition of the word.

The definition of the word love is an intense feeling of deep affection.

The season brings out that and then some.

But despite the definition do we understand how to love?

A friend and I had a conversation about this and how during our lives we've been searching for love.

I mean the love you are supposed o feel according to the movies, the toes curling love. and yet we are now in our 50s and have still experienced that type of love.

I have spent the last three years trying to accept and love myself with all my faults.

I am not perfect nor have I ever thought I was perfect, in my head I created a love that was perfect with the husband and the white picket fence.

And it has yet to happen for me and a few others I know.

Love doesn't judge or criticize you for just being who you are.

Love doesn't go away or stop because a person isn't feeling you.

Love is unconditional and can bring you unmatched joy.

The best part is love is forever and lasting when it comes from a place of pure and unwavering.

Spring has sprung and with that knowledge, this love will find you, and when it does be prepared to receive a gift of the greatest joy.

Live, love, laugh

Oct. 2, 2022

Beware

Let me take you on a journey for the past month I have been talking to a guy from IG, and for a few weeks now some things are not adding up.

now follow me on this first I have had both family members and friends who were in the military and never had to pay for their means of getting in touch with family and friends. on top of that right out the gate, this man is professing his love for me when he does not know me second when does the military not pay the soldiers?

He is in the military or at least that is what his picture show every chat was on IG at first then supposedly he has been deployed to a camp based in Africa. the talks were quite good at first but since his deployment, the words have gone from asking me for money to asking for my address because he has to pay for the internet while deployed.

I am too old for the games and the scam of chatting with someone online. now mind you I let this go on for the past week and then the red flag sign started waving in my head, so when I started asking more in-depth questions then the subject gets talked around or not answered at all.

I am too old to play games with scammers I don't care how good a person looks when your inner voice is yelling at you to run then listen to it. I have been burned by a scammer before and so have a few friends.

Once again I have only been talking to this person for a month and we have never met just chatting through the internet we have exchanged a few pictures but this is not serious at all, so when you start asking things that I know for a fact that you are getting than my thoughts are you thought that you had a mark to use up. not today you don't my grandmother didn't raise a fool nor a dummy. so after the last text last night asking for my address I quickly deleted the google chat.

so for me to give you the benefit of the doubt says a lot.

but we're not going to do is play games I have not the time or patience for nonsense. so ladies and gentlemen please beware of who you allow in your social media space and when it doesn't add up question everything. because we are too old to get played by folks on the internet with too much time on their hands, we deserve to find the happiness we want and need. not for people to prey on us because in their twisted minds we're so lonely we will fall for anything. I will say it one more time so those in the back can hear my grandmother didn't raise any fool.